Love becomes unreal and stifled when is attached. Attachment is a relationship we have with someone or something which we have created in our imagination. When we become emotionally involved with someone our mind and our thoughts are coloured by the memories of their behaviour.
We remember everything about them; how they smile, how they walk or drive, what they say and how they say it. This process distorts the energy of our heart. We become infatuated or obsessed or both. We desperately need reassurance from the outside that we are worthy of love; that we deserve it. This illusion that love can only be obtained in the outside world makes us turn our world topsy-turvy.
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