There is a prevailing myth of romantic love (mostly fed to us by the media and entertainment industry) that love is ‘attachment with the one’ or ‘exclusive with the one’.
And yet, the moment we become attached to anyone or anything, our natural energy which is love becomes distorted and replaced with feelings of fear that we now may lose love we ‘acquired’ or that we may not be worthy of that love. If we perceive a love as being lost, we experience the feelings of sadness, misery and anger.
This idea that we can have the ‘true love’ only if we work for it, if we ‘deserve it’ in some way, is an illusion so powerfully engrained in us.
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